Catholic Community: ‘Father’s Day’

Father is a deep and profound word.  Jesus introduces us to His father and says we can call him ours – Our Father.  In the following words we get an image of the unconditional love held in what father means.

When we were young, we were told that we should love, honor and obey our fathers. This comes from our gratitude not obligation.

Dad is the familiar name used by many for the father of our childhood.

He is the one who went to work every morning no matter the weather or how he felt. He shared parenting with our mother with love and pride. He looked forward to coming home from work to be with his children. 

When the time came to build a playhouse or a sandbox he did so with enthusiasm. He experienced joy as he watched his children playing and enjoying the fruits of his efforts. He gladly fit himself into a tiny chair to have tea from a miniature cup with his precious daughter. He loved to read a story and say night prayers with his children. He assembled toys at Christmas and could put on a Santa suit if needed.

He threw baseballs to his children on the lawn and would shoot baskets until they tired. When the umpire didn’t show up for a game he volunteered to do the job without shin guards! He coached children’s games and also cheered from side lines.

He taught them to be fair and honest with others.  He said, “If you can’t say something good about a person, don’t say anything at all.”  He taught them to respect people, no matter their color, race or beliefs. He asked them to never degrade or bully a weaker person. He told them to show respect for their elders and compassion and care for the less fortunate. He guided them into making wise decisions.

As he grew older and needed care we assisted him.

Some of us are fathers and know the joy of this reality. 

Remember your father with kindness and be grateful for the opportunity you have had to parent others.  For it is in the giving that we receive.